You’ve probably heard the saying, “attitude is everything.” Well, I’m here to tell you that gratitude is even better than a good attitude. Why? Because gratitude is the language of the Universe. What you focus on expands. So, if you want more good things in your life, start by being grateful for what you already have.

“Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” – Melody Beattie

Some of the benefits of gratitude include:

· Improved mental well-being

· Greater happiness

· Increased resilience in the face of stress

· Improved physical health

· Deeper relationships

· Enhanced empathy and decreased aggression

· increased self-esteem

How Gratitude Works

Gratitude is a powerful emotion that can have a profound impact on your life. When you are feeling gratitude, you are actually vibrating at a higher frequency. This higher vibration attracts more of what you are grateful for into your life. It’s like tuning into a certain radio station. The more you focus on gratitude, the more good things you will attract into your life.

Gratitude also has the power to change your perspective. When you are focused on being grateful, it is hard to be anything but positive. Gratitude helps you to see the good in every situation and to find the silver lining in every cloud. It works because there is an automatic shift in perspective. When you choose to be grateful, you can no longer simultaneously hold onto anger, resentment, jealousy, or hatred. You may still feel those emotions from time to time, but when you make the decision to focus on gratitude, those negative emotions will be crowded out by positive ones. Additionally, by expressing gratitude for the good in your life, you are more likely to attract more good into your life.

Another reason gratitude works so well is because it is rooted in mindfulness. When you are truly grateful for something, you are present in the moment and focused on what you are appreciating. You are not dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. You are fully present and savoring the moment. Mindfulness has been shown to have numerous benefits including reduced anxiety and depression, improved sleep, and enhanced immune function.

Gratitude works because it reminds us of our interconnectedness. When we express gratitude for someone or something outside of ourselves, we are reminded that we are not alone in this world and that we are all connected. This sense of connection can lead to feelings of overall wellbeing and contentment. Additionally, studies have shown that people who feel more connected to others also have an increased sense of meaning and purpose in their lives.

Finally, gratitude is contagious. When you express gratitude, it creates a ripple effect and those around you will also start to feel more grateful. So, not only will practicing gratitude make your life better, but it will also make the lives of those around you better as well!

Gratitude is one of the most powerful emotions we have at our disposal. It has the ability to change our perspective, attract more good into our lives, and even make those around us feel better! So next time something good happens in your life, take a moment to stop and appreciate it. And if something bad happens, try to find something to be grateful for in that situation as well. You might just be surprised at how much your life improves when you start practicing gratitude on a regular basis!

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I’m Mike,

Welcome to the Bence Perspective. Over the years I have accumulated a wealth of experience as a leader, student, counselor, father, husband and pastor. With that in mind I desired to create something to share some of the things I’ve learned with the hopes that it can help you in your own journey. Welcome and I hope you enjoy!

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