By Michael Bence

Practicing Gratitude in Place of Attitude

Throughout our lives, we all face challenges. Some challenges are bigger than others, but they all have the potential to knock us off our feet if we let them. That’s why it’s so important to have an attitude of gratitude—because when we focus on what we’re grateful for, it’s easier to see the good in our lives and maintain our positive attitude.

Gratitude is the quality of being thankful and readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness. When you express gratitude, you are acknowledging the good in your life. Gratitude isn’t just about saying “thank you,” it’s about recognizing that you are blessed in so many ways. It’s a choice to focus on what’s working in your life instead of what isn’t. Gratitude has been shown to have numerous benefits, both physically and emotionally. It is a practice that can be done anytime, anywhere. You don’t need any special equipment or training; all you need is a willingness to focus on the positive. When you make gratitude a part of your daily routine, you’ll start to see how much of an impact it can have on your life. Here are a few ways that practicing gratitude can help you: 

1. Gratitude helps us see the good in our lives.

When we take the time to notice and appreciate the good things in our lives, it becomes easier to see the positive even when times are tough. By focusing on what we’re grateful for, we train our brains to look for the positive even when bad things happen. 

2. Gratitude helps us cope with stress and trauma.

In times of stress or trauma, it can be hard to see anything good in our lives. But if we make gratitude a habit, it can help us get through tough times because we know that better days are ahead. Studies have shown that people who practice gratitude have more resilience and are better able to cope with stressful situations than those who don’t. 

3. Gratitude helps us build and maintain relationships.

When we focus on what we’re grateful for in our relationships, it allows us to see our loved ones in a new light. We start to appreciate them more, and as a result, we’re more likely to treat them with kindness and respect. Gratitude also helps us attract new friends and build stronger relationships because people are drawn to positive energy. 

4. Gratitude makes us happier.”Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others.” – CiceroIf you want to increase your happiness, start by practicing gratitude. Studies have shown that people who regularly practice gratitude are more likely to be happy and satisfied with their lives than those who don’t.” 

Gratitude is one of the simplest but most powerful things you can do for yourself—and it doesn’t cost a thing! By taking the time each day to focus on what you’re grateful for, you can train your brain to look for the positive even when bad things happen. And when you start seeing the good in your life, you’ll be surprised at how much happier you become overall.” Try incorporating gratitude into your daily routine and see how much of an impact it has on your life!

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I’m Mike,

Welcome to the Bence Perspective. Over the years I have accumulated a wealth of experience as a leader, student, counselor, father, husband and pastor. With that in mind I desired to create something to share some of the things I’ve learned with the hopes that it can help you in your own journey. Welcome and I hope you enjoy!

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